We’ve been together for a while now. Some of you have been been in from the start and some, just in for a day or few days. Welcome to you whomever you are and for however long or short your arrival and stay.
I have truly and sincerely enjoyed writing these posts; sharing my experiences in life, in business, and in personal life. Sharing the things that have touched my heart. Teaching things that have enriched my soul, and passing on things from my mentors that have forced me to grow and in all areas in my life.
I started out in life with a challenge. This was a severe stutter at age 6. Along with this came shyness and a lack of confidence that plagued me in every area of my life well into my 30’s. By age 34 – some 28 years of living as a “professional” stutterer – my speech impediment subsided thanks to almost 3 decades of wishing and wanting, hoping and dreaming, praying and WORKING hard towards a life of normal speech and verbal expression. I then went on to do the impossible; I became a public speaker. I also went on to host my own radio show.
I continued to do another impossibility; I became a consultant for a private network of global billionaires in my early 30s. I created my own unique consultancy and worked as an elite freelance consultant for 11+ years. I specialized in business rescue, recovery, efficiency and strategizing. I created almost impossible success for my clients and at times, defied the odds not just once but time and time again. 0-$300 million in sales in 2 years. 0-$340+ million company worth in 18 months. 0-400K in 4 months when bankruptcy was 30 days away, for example.
I did the impossible in my mid-20s when I performed my first hands on healing in the hospital and didn’t know what I did or why I did what I didn’t know I did. His name was Henk and his wife looked at me with a combination of amazement and disbelief, and could only ask me, “What did you do? Who are you?”. Henk had fallen from his bed and badly cut his cheek on the way down to visit with the floor. I walked in as his wife and nurses were picking him up, rushed to help, and was asked to hold the bandage/gauze against his cheek to stop the bleeding from the deep laceration he suffered on the way down. When Henk was back firmly secured in his bed a few moments later, his wife Christine took over the duties of the bandage holding of Henk’s cheek, only to find the wound fully healed.
I did more impossible healings but from afar, sometimes as far away as New Zealand. These were done by phone and some via Google Earth. Some were done alone using only my thoughts and the proper direction of my natural talent and ability to “change” things.
I did the impossible in my late 20s when I performed my first exorcism on a house and surrounding property. “It” kept waking me up during the night until 3:30 am when I had enough. When I “got to work” getting the entity out of the house and into a “better place”, I found myself walking down the basement stairs only to find myself temporarily stupid. The entity momentarily wiped my memory clean. A prompt “RETREAT!” was ordered and there I was, about 8 steps backwards up onto the main floor, just a little intimidated and minutes later, with my competitiveness taking over, slightly frothing at the mouth ready to get back into the fight. It was yet another fight I won.
I did the impossible at age 40 when I “healed” or changed a little boy’s health for the better in less than 3 seconds. He was the son of my then girlfriend’s friend. The boy was around 4 and my then girlfriend was in medical school studying to be a surgeon. She knew “about” me and told me of the boy’s sickness and out it came, “Two to three. He will be healed in 2-3.” Of course my gf was dangerously curious and asked what 2-3 meant. I told her 2-3 minutes or 2-3 days. Sure enough she called me in 2 days and just said, “You were right.” I then posed the future career ending question to her, “So the question is… did I know he would be okay in 2-3 days or did I heal him.” Shortly after we broke up with her citing she saw what I did, been witness to it first hand on more than one occasion, but was unable to believe any of it. I was the conflict with her current studies and future career as a surgeon and medical health care professional.
Another one bites the dust.
I did the impossible when at age 43, I had two conversations simultaneously with 2 boyfriends that had both taken their lives for different reasons. The woman sitting before me was suffering great pain, frustration and anguish not knowing why these men she loved so dearly, suddenly checked out, leaving her all alone and completely at a loss and for many years. The first man said it best with what he wrote on the whiteboard, making it so very easy and clear for me to convey back to Kelsey. To this day, I think not of a more rewarding 25 minutes in my life, to have been there and without planning or appointment, and did what would be considered impossible to so many yet so valuable to the few for whom know it to be so very possible.
And to do this and so many other accomplishments without the graduation of high school along with the failing of Grade 12 math a total of 3 times… without post secondary education or any formal study or institutionalized learning… I have taken a different route and become what I never dreamed or imagined or believed was possible.
I did another impossibility at age 19 when I crashed head first into a car door at 40 mph/60 kph on my motorcycle…. and survived. The doctors said it was a miracle I lived and said it was an even bigger miracle I was not paralyzed. Hospital staff rolled me off their premises in a wheelchair just hours after the smash n’ crash, and once at the car, I stood up to walk and I have always walked since. The priests all agreed; it was a miracle. They all said I was blessed, so very blessed. But I do not share such beliefs.
I have a purpose. I am on a mission. I have a destiny and fate is steering my way through the thickness of Life, all for a definite reason. In an earlier post, I wrote about 2 goals I had when I was young and smack ugly-ducking dab in the meat of my stuttering. My first goal was to speak. My second goal was dependent upon the achievement of my first goal, and this was to build something. Didn’t know what… had no clue what I felt so inclined to build, only that I would build it. Some 35 years later, after decades of experiences and never ending life lessons, trials and tribulations, I know what this is. This thing is called “Your Bridge To Mastery”. Took me a while but it needed to be this way.
This Bridge is about being the best you can be through development and understanding how Life actually works. Here is the breakdown of my Bridge or journey of Mastery:
I was confronted by a challenge
I underwent a transformation process
I overcompensated for my weakness
I gained knowledge, experiences and wisdom
I then overcame my challenge
I totally transformed my life in every way
I accomplished the impossible
I learned incredible secrets and uncovered truths
I discovered how Life really works
And my purpose is to Teach, Train, Instruct and Share it all
I did this with help; help from many wise mentors and through a profound drive to be the best at something. But I also knew my destiny and thus, my life’s purpose. I knew this intuitively but didn’t have the exact direction until I discovered MY Bridge To My Mastery. Only then did it all become clear and has enabled me to proceed forward with great confidence and zest.
My purpose is to teach, train, instruct and share what I learned over the course of my life that enabled me to become the Ultimate Version of Myself… a person who has done the impossible over and over again. The very best way I can teach, train, instruct and share my knowledge and experiences, is to start with “Your Bridge To Mastery”.
I define Mastery as desiring a certain amount of power, strength and control in your life and over your life. What I learned most from my mentors and from my real life experiences in working with my clients and, in developing myself, is that life and events and experiences are all incomplete equations. We are where we are be it mentally, emotionally, health-wise and financially, for example, and we know this because it feels great and we are successful, or it sucks. Nobody needs to tell us this… its a bloody beautiful or bloody painful given. And of course we want more of the good and less of the bad. Doesn’t matter if it is good or bad, or if a part of you is good… it can always be better.
And here is the kicker of the kicker’s kicker; if we have complete equations, life would be terribly boring. We would never discover or explore or chance and never feel a thrill or a rush. We would never APPRECIATE. The incomplete equations provide adventure and even terror and of course the necessity to love and feel love. Complete equations, to me, would be similar to life on Vulcan, even though logic drives the need to mentally complete incomplete equations. Get my drift???
And guess what Kiddo? It is our job to complete each and every equation.
Incomplete equations = lack of Mastery or less power, strength and control.
Complete equations = greater Mastery or more power, strength and control.
This is what I did for my clients and when “we” completed their incomplete equations or found the missing parts to their success formulas, the success encountered was and is simply hard to put into words. It was a literal magic show and we were all thoroughly entertained. The price of admission was trouble, problems, challenges and the unknown, all of which I identified and labelled not as problems, but as evolutionary processes of Mastery. These are processes that have a sequential order and, are itching to be brought to completion.
To complete the many equations in your life we need to apply “Your Bridge To Mastery”. This Bridge completes the equation (covers or closes the distance or gap) and provides you with the missing data to the incomplete equation, that causes the LACK of Mastery or the lack of power, strength and control, in your Life… all 13 parts. We could say there are 13 Bridges To Your Mastery.
The 13 Bridges Of Your Mastery are as follows:
- Overall Mastery
- Mental Mastery
- Emotional Mastery
- Energy or Willpower and Drive Mastery
- Financial Mastery
- Health Mastery
- Spirituality Mastery
- Idealistic Mastery
- Internal Challenge Mastery
- Success Mastery
- Societal Mastery
- Subconscious Mastery
- Destiny or Mastery of Your Life’s Purpose
Want to have more Mastery in your relationships? Great! Do X.
Want to have more financial Mastery? Great! Do Y.
Want to have more Mastery with your health? Great! Do Z.
This brings me to the next evolution of this blog – a paid membership site. This will be the starting point of offering the very best information, knowledge and wisdom of my 23+ year journey of becoming the Ultimate Version of Myself, on my way to Mastery, and the continuation of my life’s purpose after a long sabbatical from my career as an elite freelance consultant, to you.
The paid membership site will be offered for a short time starting November 23rd, 2016. Details will be shared in the coming days.